FEELING INSPIRED?

For a long time women were left out of our history books. Instead women were either in the background supporting husbands, or achieving great results with little public recognition.  Today however we have moved from the shadows and are standing in the limelight of inspired thought and action. Inspiring women need not be famous or particularly well known.  Each day we meet inspiring women who in the smallest instance, can make us stop and reflect on our own lives.  By definition, if we feel a call to action, that woman has inspired us.

To inspire someone is in influence, move or guide them. We all feel empowered when we witness a positive change in someone we have helped create.  These everyday events can be as simple as coaching a friend on asking for a pay rise, or listening to someone who has had to walk away from a bad relationship and supporting their decision whole heartedly.

Executive coach and speaker Pollyanna Lenkic works with many inspired women to help them achieve their goals.  Lenkic says, “Inspiration is more about women being connected to themselves.  Sometimes you meet a woman who exudes confidence because of this connection.  You know she just knows who she is.  When people connect with something they are passionate about, they find something that compels them to change.  Many everyday women are truly inspirational.  They are connected to their purpose and what is important to them and this makes them inspiring to other people.”

Look at the amazing influence Jane McGrath had on other breast cancer patients and how her passing affected so many people.  “To be able to create meaning from adversity also is inspirational,” Lenkic says. “Sometimes adversity forces us to create meaning and move forward with our lives.  It would be nice to be able to short cut this and get straight into our meaning or purpose.  Often it is about identifying what is no longer acceptable in our lives and using this as an anchor to create change, and in the process finding out what really inspires us.  It is not what people have achieved necessarily but who they are being in that process, that is inspirational.  What people do – who they are being, can be phenomenally inspirational to others.”

Amanda Scanlan, 39 says, “I think everyday women who achieve extraordinary things are inspiring.  I think their qualities need to be energy, focus, humility, courage and eternal optimism.  A woman at my work had a baby who died at 2 and a half.  She is a single mum with two other children, she works, and started a charity with the Mater Hospital for research.  She has raised $90,000 so far. People like Dr Fiona Woods, voted Australian of the year in 2005 for her work with burns victims and the Governor General Quentin Bryce.  I consider these women to be inspirational also. ”

Kelly Thomas, 25 says, “I have lots of women who inspire me.  I find women who are able to find their special talent or skill or quality and who use it as a catalyst to make them happy.  People who inspire me are people who excel – but aren’t necessarily famous.  For example there is a woman at my work who has just been invited to be a partner.  She inspires me because she is in my industry and she has worked so hard and really earned the recognition.  My yoga instructor inspires me also.   She’s spiritual and calm and loves her craft.  Being around her makes me want to do the best I can be (at yoga).  My friend’s sister is 45 and has just found the love of her life.  I find this inspiring because she has withstood so many heartbreaks, yet maintained a positive and patient outlook and has finally got what she wanted.  Famous people do inspire me too – Natasha Stott Despoja is pretty cool – her tenacity and commitment is commendable.  Her role in paid maternity leave entitlements (eventually) is really inspiring.”

Melissa Healy, 35 says, “The qualities that I find inspiring in women are drive, determination, work/life balance and a sense of humour.  A woman I have always found inspiring is Florence Broadhurst.  Florence was a vivacious Queensland girl who created her own destiny.  She was passionate about the creative arts and I doubt ever fitted the conventional mould.  I’m inspired by her flamboyant style and the confidence she had in her abilities as a designer/artist.  A local woman who inspires me Tricia Davis of Sandbox.  She manages her own business here in Brisbane, has 3 young children, is about to do the Gold Coast half marathon on the weekend and is a great friend!”

If we all lived inspired lives, just imagine what could be achieved.

Tips for becoming more inspired in your life:

  • Connect with who you really want to be in this life.
  • People are now far more conceptual and want to have more meaning in their lives. Connect to the meaning in your life, think about what really makes you inspired and act on this.
  • Think about who you are and your values. Work towards making your work congruent with these values.
  • Consider how you can connect with the passions in your life. Someone who is passionate about what they do is an inspired person and is very inspiring to others

 

This blog is designed for Brisbane women, about Brisbane women. Have your say here.

Who inspires you?  What qualities do you think a woman needs to have to make her inspiring?  Is there a particular woman in Brisbane or Australia that inspires you?

 

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19 Responses to “FEELING INSPIRED?”

  • Karen:

    I find inspiration in many women. Women today are wearing so many hats. Women are being stretched more and more and producing some amazing results. I think the trick is being able to keep a good balance.

  • Sarah:

    Inspiring women for me are the ones that go for what they want, rather that what they should. I find it very inspiring for example when a women leaves a well paid job to pursue a goal that fills her either creativley or spiritually. This to me is a woman who knows her own strength and who she is, and is not converned by what other people think.

  • Kelly:

    Great article by the way – women who inspire me exude a confidence that rubs off on people around them. When I am inspired by someone I realise how much my own perceived short comings are just that – my own perception of myself.

  • Joan Graham:

    At 68 I thought I could sit back and rest after achieving the position of General Manager in the corporate world but alas I think I will “stop when I drop”. Trying something new in direct selling and gaining my Owner Builder Licence I am about to commence building a 44 square home. My inspiration is genetic especially my grandmothers tenacity for life.

  • Kathleen:

    Recently I attended the Essentially for women conference. There were many inspirational women there but Lydney Baigent was the stand out. A women who has faced so many tough challenges in life and then come out wanting to help and inspire other women is quite remarkable. We can all learn from women who overcome adversity, they rise above it and inspire the women around them.

  • Melissa:

    I find many women in my life inspirational. My great grandmother who I never got the chance to meet as she died few weeks before I was born was an amazing woman. She was independent in a time when women were expected to be married (and to marry again if their husband died), she could drive a car, fly a plane, she was a dressmaker and specialised in making hats, she worked all her life and provided for my grandmother and her children (my mother & uncle) when she went through divorce and was on one wage. She was intelligent and could converse with anyone on any level.
    I admire my mother who is a business owner / manager with my father. She runs a household at the same time and enjoys ballroom dancing socially and with such a passion! She taught me I could do anything I wanted if I put my mind to it and its true!

  • I consider myself very lucky to see in my own mother a very inspirational woman. Which ever angle I choose to look, she is always an outstanding mother, a loving wife, the very best she can be at her profession and never ending student of courses and degrees. She’s amazing and I am always thrilled when her brothers and sisters say they can see her in me!
    I find it amazing how I have always felt loved and supported completely by her even through her working so much while my father was the stay home dad for a few years. Her ability to balance family, herself, work and her partner is what I strive for.
    It also inspires me to be the best mother I can be so that one day my little one can be somewhat proud of me even if a fraction of the pride I feel for my own mother!

  • One of the most inspiring women I have met is Mary Bourke. Mary is the President and founding member of Community Angels Inc. She works tirelessly to raise money for underpriveleged young people and their children and has done for many years. She is one of our unsung heroes. I would love to see our media do a series of programmes/stories celebrating the beautiful people in Brisbane who work so quietly in the background enriching the lives of so many in need.

  • Mary:

    Congratulations Kylie on your beautiful site. Your writing is inspirational and strengthens my resolve to keep following my heart. Many women will be touched, uplifted and guided by your messages.Please sign me up to your weekly messages.

  • rose-mary:

    This is a great site KYLIE I would like to list you as inspirational – you stick at things, and never give up on your objectives, so things get done around you. Your books are great and your articles charming and informative, keep it all going.

    The most powerful woman onthe planet I feel at the moment is Opra Winfrey, she encourages growth inall aspects of our lives, personal,and planetary. I am particularly taken by her philanthropic work from educating merican kids through her angel networkeducating african girls in her schools, and now she is involved in a great educational package for under developed countries all over the world. Kids from primary upwards can learn and contribute to the growth and empowerment of individuals,and groups in these countries, by raising funds for schools or wells for clean water etc etc She shows great empathy for those in need yet still keeps the entertainment value of her show in balance. People critisise her for her role in politics, but how can you not be involved if you are engaged in change as she is We could all benifit by looking for chang within our selves, and how we can change the circumstances of the world to benefit others.Thanks once again for this forum.

  • Women have always been inspiring, always! Whether they were stay at home mums, corporate ladies, sportwomen, suffragettes or ladies from every other century’s who were in the role of helper or breeder. All of them showed the strength and resilience of women, their flexibility and their compassionate natures. All of them proved that women are now and have always been a force to be reckoned with and none of us ever have been the ‘weaker sex.’

  • Women who inspire me are actually those who are multi tasking with little fuss or need for recognition. They don’t usually realise it but women around them are generally aspiring to have the confidence and ability that they exude.

  • I am inspired by women who have found fulfillment in something they are passionate about. It may have become their career or it may be an unpaid occupation – whatever it is it makes them happy. For them it is not about recognition or fame but about personal growth and realisation of dreams.
    Great idea for a blog Kylie, I am planning on being a regular visitor.

  • Melissa:

    It’s inspiring just reading the comments and articles. Thanks for your site Kylie. I am a regular!

  • Jackie:

    Uplifting, hope-giving and shared wisdom is what make woman unique. You have combined a wealth of womans’ knowledge and experience in this fabulous site!!Thankyou for a wonderful and inspiring site Kylie ..Keep up the great work. I will be popping in regularly to visit this site.

  • Thanks for your article, it made me feel good today! I just wanted to say that earlier this year I was given a book for my 40th birthday called Empowered for the New Era by an Australian woman – Vanessa Bennett. It would have to be the most liberating book I’ve ever read as a woman trying to understand myself. Thanks and keep up the good work.

  • Inspirational Women………wow what a topic! I believe there are loads of Inspirational Women all over our Nation who we just don’t get to hear from. I met one at the Womens Network Australia Xmas Luncheon. Her name was Bernadette and she is the spokesperson for “Mummy’s Wish” an organisation started to help Mum’s with cancer. This young woman spoke to a room full of average Aussie Business Women and I’m sure there was not a dry eye in the place. Having been diagnosed and treated with cancer twice, she doesn’t know how long she has to live, but she spends her time helping other young Mum’s with cancer to know what support groups are out there and does everything she can to fund it. What an inspiration! We are hoping as an organisation to help this young woman to achieve great things in the unknown time that she has left! I believe there are loads and loads of inspiration Aussie Women who just need the courage to speak out. Women….it’s time we stop letting fear hold us back! There is another woman out there who needs to hear your words of Encouragement, your words of Inspiration….so take a chance….SPEAK UP….what have you got to lose!

  • I want to be the person that inspires other women I have always felt this amazing draw to give to other women!!!! I was 20 when i fell pregnant and my mum left when I was 17 so being the youngest of 5 from a poor white trash background I was already in trouble. At 9 I took on a paper round to get myself out of this cycle, at such a young age I knew I had a choice.  My mum left when i was 17 and my dad (who died just years later) took on the  responsibility of looking after a teenage girl, it was way too confronting so I got sent to my eldest sisteri in adelaide!! This is where after a year lost my virginity and I became mum.

  • today I am so fortunate and there is nothing I want for., except other women to inspire!!!! I worked hard knew what I wanted and had the most amazing friends……all women,

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